Given that the dawn of homo sapiens, we have been examining, experiencing, as well as attempting to break the secret code of love. Many of us appear to have actually failed to remember that in the earlier days, free love was a deficiency. From aristocrats to slaves, marriages as well as connections were often provided as commands and also choices of individuals in higher power and also authority for political, spiritual, product and personal gains. Thus, there are the fantastic love misfortunes of “” Romeo and Juliet”” as well as “” Abelard and Heloise””, in addition to numerous others that were heedlessly maltreated for their innocent expression of love. These awful love stories left much of us questioning, why is it so hard to enjoy and also what resembles to experience that deepness of love?
Free will like has actually made much development in the 21st century with the evolution of people’ love experiences, technical development, and also social adjustments. In today’s even more liberal societies, individuals are offered the freedom to choose and share their admirations and also desires to the topics of their affection with little or no effects. Nevertheless, in societies where we can freely pick whom we intend to love, we have actually experienced an increase in divorce rate, a decline in marriage price, and also even more individuals postponing marital relationship for different reasons.
Duality of Love
However regardless whether we adhere to the “” Abelard and Heloise”” love model of ‘adhering to one to the end of the Hell’ to ‘you are simply one of the 100 people that I am seeing and also what is your name once more?’, we experience the global problems of satisfaction and also pains, the integrating, and also the supreme disintegration of love as well as connections, despite how little or just how much we enjoy. No matter how much wealth as well as power one possesses, one is still subject to others’ psychological as well as physical transgressions.
So, if we understand the ultimate end to any kind of love as well as connection, why are we still non-stop seeking love, whether it is in the form of a dedicated monogamous relationship or sleeping with as many individuals as we can? What is it that we go after in our teenagers, 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s, and up to the minute of our death? As well as if we are to look back at our lives, would we regret the moments we did not try more challenging, the people we have hurt, and a lot of excruciating of all, we easily released that person that awakens our heart, only to discover so far too late.
Satisfaction and also discomforts are the twin brothers of love. We can not anticipate one and not the other. We assume we be worthy of God-like love as well as it is someone else’s duty to make us delighted. If we desire God-like love, then we must place in God-like work. If we are not willing to open our hearts to experience judgements, dissatisfactions, and pains in experiencing love, how can we request for a love that brings us happiness? If we are not happy to conquer our vanities and karmic conditionings, how we can manifest a love that brings us indicating? If we are not ready to recover our souls’ deepest injuries, how can we expect to live without pain?