Nothing can beat a person who is in love so much. we just want to spend our days with someone that really matters. Someone that will stay with us forever. I never thought that i would feel this way again, to fall in love. one thing I learned from my past which I cannot play back. I was wrong for taking granted a relationship I had before. I thought that when you are in a long years, there is not much communication between as you know that your partner will understand.
Communication is the key to happiness. it means that whether it’s about love or not, it is really essential at all. when you love someone you are willing to open up things for the both of you. Silence wont fix it up and just add the fire. telling what you feel and be frank is more important than not saying at all. You cannot let your partner guess what is going on in your mind. let your partner feel that their existence is important. one crucial thing about a relationship is making other people feel bad at all.
Ive learned what I did before and this time I won’t let it happened again. Being open is much more important than being silent. Even the situation is bad you have to let your partner knows what’s going on. There’s nothing better than being free and making the other person feel good at all. Always do what you think is right. I took for granted my fiancée before, we almost in the end of our relationship but I sabotage it. I never knew that secrecy and being silent destroyed years of being with my girl. We have lots of arguments but I chose to walk away. I saw her cried a lot of times and devastated. she heals in silent without me knowing that I had hurt her a lot. i never told my partner that I slowly fail my business and so down in life. I kept everything to myself. it was hard but I never talked over it.
I slowly forget my fiancé to update her and call her. I never knew that I took her for granted. One day she told me that she won’t do the wedding anymore and she’s done. I started to realize how much I failed her and how I lose the girl. I could not blame her for walking away because a lot of times I let her suffer alone.
Those experiences shape me into the person I am today. I became available to my lover now. I want to know everything about her and talk about it. I became more open about myself and problems. That’s when I realized how important communication is. it is truly a key for a brighter future. Always communicate with everything that’s bothering you, there is no shame in that.
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